My main issue is that I have several web services that I need to access away from my LAN (ssh, WHS, subsonic). I finally got my VPN working via PPTP, I could never get the OpenVPN working. Anyways I use to be able to go to website.homeserver.com and pull up my WHS website. But now nothing works outside of my LAN.
I guess what I need is for incoming connections to bypass the VPN.